Question 1

What is your approach?

Accepted Answer

My approach to working with couples is based on three core principles (or frameworks): Human Needs, Masculine & Feminine Energies, and Self-Awareness. 
 
1. Human Needs - at the core of all human relationship problems (personal OR professional), you will find unmet needs. The most critical step in rebuilding a relationship is understanding those needs (your own, and your partners) and then making a conscious effort to meet those needs with love and empathy.
 
2. Masculine & Feminine Energy - rarely discussed in couples counselling, understanding the difference between the two energies is crucial for maintaining polarity and intimacy in your relationship; and for living true to your natural essence. This is not a psychological theory per se, but rather a biological imperative driven by hormones. Read more here. 
 
3. Self-Awareness - as they say, "it takes two to tango." A relationship is like a dance, in which two people engage and interact, and where each 'move' has a cause & effect. Part of the journey in healing a relationship is developing awareness of one's own patterns, behaviours, triggers, fears and blindspots. We all have them. With awareness comes understanding; and with understanding we can consciously choose to take the dance in a new direction.

Question 2

How do you structure the couples counselling?

Accepted Answer

Typically, I see each partner separately for ONE session, then together as a couple from the third session.

This is not set in stone, however over the years I've discovered this to be far more effective (vs both partners coming in together on the first session).

Question 3

What is the "risk-free" first session?

Accepted Answer

It’s a way for you to experience coaching/counselling with zero risk upfront.
Come for one session, try it.
If you decide it’s not for you (or not what you expected), you pay NOTHING.
You only pay if you are completely happy, and decide to return for a second session.

Please note: this is not a MONEY FREE session. 
It's only "free" if you decide not to return after the first session.

Any questions, feel free to email: info@lifeworks.hk

Question 4

How long will it take to see results?

Accepted Answer

The answer to this question really depends on you and your partner.
 
As they say, "change can happen in an instant"..... yet we all have some resistance to change. This is something we address in the first session. 
 
If both partners show up "ready & willing" I think you'll be surprised how quickly you start to resolve some of the key issues and destructive patterns that are keeping you stuck.

Question 5

My partner is unwilling to see a counsellor. What should I do?

Accepted Answer

If you're interested in your own personal/spiritual evolution, I recommend you come alone for two reasons: 
 
1. Chances are you will learn a good deal about yourself and the patterns that tend to play out in your relationships - past, present and future. For instance, why is it you attracted the type of partner who is unwilling to come in for counselling? What can you do about it? How can you have your needs met without triggering your partner? etc  
 
2. Metaphorically all relationships are simply a dance - two people intertwined, moving, interacting and responding. Truth is, it only takes ONE partner to move the dance in a new direction. If you start to make positive changes (for your own growth), eventually your partner will be forced to respond in new ways.  
 
As relationship expert Gay Hendricks suggests: "Don't fall into the trap of waiting to change until your partner is ready. Go ahead and make a total commitment to your individual development."

Question 6

Do you offer counselling online (via Zoom or Skype)?

Accepted Answer

Yes, but only for ADHD and Peak Performance coaching.
Sorry, not for Couples Counselling.

Due to the intimate nature of relationship counselling, the emotions involved, and the potential for misunderstandings or miscommunication... being in the same room/space is crucial.

Question 7

Where is your clinic and what are the hours?

Accepted Answer

I am currently seeing clients on Tues, Wed and Fri (1-8pm).

Address –                                                                                                                          
Room D, 9/F
The Phoenix
23 Luard Road
Wan Chai

** Wan Chai MTR – Exit C (2min walk) **

Map & Directions -
https://maps.app.goo.gl/knbqRvqPzy6jB4qX8

Question 8

What if I have questions?

Accepted Answer

I'd be happy to answer them!

Feel free to get in touch - 
Email: info@lifeworks.hk 
Whatsapp: 9185 3840 
Or via the Contact Page

Question 9

How do I schedule a session?

Accepted Answer

Please use the Contact Page.
Or reach out via email (info@lifeworks.hk), WhatsApp or telephone (9185 3840).

Whatever works for you...

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